Just when you think it is over, it is not. Sometimes there is a thing that happens when you give up. It’s as if the seas part (remember Moses?) and you realize what you have and you say why not and so many other things. Perhaps it is surrender or something like that. You just know that you have to give in and maybe consider a different possibility.
Relationships are like that. So are gardens. A plant you thought lost re-blooms, like a relationship you think is in the pits when it really isn’t. It then becomes about love and surrender and a whole host of other things, like maybe you don’t know what you are doing and should just let life do what it does best, which is to love actually. Like, perhaps, consider something different in the person you love as if seeing them for the first time and see what happens when you do so. Just as the verbena spins its seed and flourishes resplendently, which then let’s us know that life really does know what it is doing. Hmm, interesting thought. And I thought I knew better.